Things I Wish Goyim Would Stop Doing:
- Stealing our culutre, sayings, philosophy, religion, stories, folklore, etc basically stop doing culture appropriation
- Saying terms like Judeo-Christian or Judeo-something
- Casting non-Jewish actors for Jewish roles in plays, shows, musicals, movies, etc
- Deciding that you get to determine what is and is not antisemitism
- Lumping us with white people and our heritage, history, people hood,
culture
, philosophy, and such under the umbrella of white
- Speaking over us
- Ignoring the fact that we too struggle with harmful shit from white societies that we internalized like for example white euro-centric beauty standards
- Ignoring just how much we have to hide and cut off if we want to even a little bit fit in with white society things like plastic surgery, long term harmful hair treatments to make our hair straight, changing our names, just a few examples
- Saying Jews instead of Jewish people
- Claiming we are in any way European or originally come from Europe
- Pretending that what little so called Jewish representation in media/pop culture isn’t heavily whitewashed and grossly antisemitic with almost nothing for Jewish women, disabled Jewish people, queer Jewish people, and Jewish people of color.
- Making fun of our languages and the way we talk/how we talk
- Acting like many of us don’t deal with antisemitism on a daily basis
- Acting like antisemitism is hatred and discrimination on religious level only and ignoring the fact that is more commonly on hatred and discrimination on a racial level.
- Letting antisemitism slide
- Creating stories where “what if the nazi won” bullshit
- Comparing everything and anything under the sun to the Holocaust and Nazis
- Telling us we should take it as a complement when you use stereotypes about us that have been used to kill us ex. Jews are rich bullshit
- Acting like all Jewish people are super duper rich when in reality most of us are really very much not, a very large amount of the Jewish population are actually very poor, and for pretty much our entire history Jewish people becoming super duper rich was like really really fucking rare
- Secret lizard people jokes
- Jewish people control the world secretly, ZOG, and other antisemitic untrue conspiracy theories
- Acting like we have a lot more power then we actual do
- Pretending there are a lot more Jewish people then there actually are we only make up .2% of the world population currently only 14 million Jewish people world wide
- Making “Jews are crazy” jokes when we are really dealing inter-generational trauma some which from trauma that has occurred centuries ago
- Acting like we wanted to be in Diaspora and choose this
- Saying x group “is the new Jews”
- Painting all of us with broad strokes and using the worst examples as to be fully and wholly representative of all Jewish people
- Holding up certain Jewish people to “prove” that antisemitic stereotypes are true
I agree with most of these, with the following exceptions/caveats:
(1) is such a lost cause. The entirety of Christianity is a massive appropriation of our religion, scripture, history, identity… but of course that had a different significance at the time. I encountered some pretty cringey things while singing in my university chapel choir, the worst being that they do Communion using challah on Maundy Thursday. Which is supposed to commemorate a Passover seder. Yeah, let that sink in. We also sang Kurt Weill’s setting of the Kiddush during Communion one Sunday morning. Yeah, the prayer that thanks God for setting us apart from the nations and giving us the Sabbath, and which we recite at the beginning of the Sabbath on Friday evening. I’m ambivalent about the widespread use of “kosher” to mean “acceptable,” which is especially common in analytic philosophy… but in that case I’m pretty sure it was actual Jews who started it, so I can’t really complain.
(2) is sometimes a problem and sometimes not. The Abrahamic religions do share some basic moral perspectives, including the importance of helping outsiders and the poor… But although Judaism does encourage chastity before marriage and emphasize human finitude and frailty as against God’s power and fidelity, it doesn’t share the metaphysical asceticism of Christianity and Islam: we don’t condemn sexuality or corporeality wholesale or consider human beings hopeless sinners. So don’t put that on us.
(3) doesn’t bother me that much, except to the extent that casting non-Jewish white people as Ashkenazi Jews encourages non-Jews in the view that Jews are straightforwardly white. I don’t mind at all when non-Jewish Middle Easterners like Tony Shalhoub are cast as Jewish characters; that actually acknowledges the genetic and historical kinship. I think it’s kind of funny that Italian actors like Al Pacino and Stanley Tucci get cast as Ashkenazi Jewish characters… there is definitely a Mediterranean look.
(9), saying “Jews,” is acceptable from non-Jews whom I know and trust. It saves 3 syllables.

