philosopherking1887:

Sorry I’ve been sort of absent from the fandom recently. I’ve had a lot of shit going on, and even though I finished the main thing that was weighing me down (the journal paper), I’ve sort of gotten out of the habit of being active on Tumblr and I’ve been feeling kind of alienated from the fandom (Loki and Thorki) for what I should think are obvious reasons. I haven’t even bothered to watch videos of Tom’s interviews at Ace Comic Con because I’m thinking it’s not worth it to be emotionally invested in Loki or his fate.

I don’t want to abandon the fics I’m writing. I do want to get back into writing them. Or maybe that’s a second-order desire: I want to want to get back to writing. I’m feeling less depressed and anxious than I had been, probably because I finished the paper and because I’ve been settling into the new place and new job. Maybe my motivation and excitement will return. I’ll try keeping the documents open on my computer so at least I’ll be thinking about it.

…or maybe not. Because I have so many job applications due Oct 30 – Nov 2 that I’ll have to be working on them pretty much nonstop from now until then to get them all in. Why must Catholic and UK universities make their applications such an almighty pain in the ass?

Plus my students have a writing assignment due this coming Wednesday, October 24. I have 36 students and no TA/grader. FML.

Nearly all teachers I worked with habitually excuse Hitler

littlegoythings:

As an assistant teacher for 16 years, I encountered numerous examples of antisemitism being taught — sometimes unknowingly — in England’s classrooms. Nearly all of the teachers I encountered had uncritically absorbed antisemitic tropes at their universities and teacher training colleges, much of it dressed up as “anti-Zionism”.

For instance, Year Sevens are taught about the Black Death in RE, a lesson I often observed. Children were nearly always told that the Jews were blamed at the time for the plague, but this was rarely presented as an example of an antisemitic falsehood. Indeed, the teachers usually left open the question of whether the Jews really were responsible.

That meant that when the children were taught about the Holocaust in Year Nine, it was not uncommon for children to respond by saying, “But Sir! The Jews DID give us the Plague though… ‘coz you said so in Year Seven!”

For instance, Year Nines are often taught about the Holocaust in the context of why the Jews have been hated throughout history. But unless carefully presented, this “context” can often seem like an apology for Nazism, as if the Jews did something to deserve their misfortune.

Nearly all the teachers I have worked with who were born in the 1980s habitually excuse Hitler and undermine the unique historical horror of the Holocaust. The usual response to Hitler’s genocidal antisemitism is to explain that it was not just the Jews. Others suffered too. In the interests of “balance”, the teachers often point out that Hitler did good things as well as bad — he created jobs and made Germany great again, for instance.

When I suggested to a teacher that we first talk about the positive influences of Judaism before introducing the Holocaust, she dismissed it on the grounds that “learning how successful they are might irritate some people”.

In GCSE History, antisemitism often slithers into students’ subconscious in ramshackle debates about the aftermath of the First World War. “You can understand why the German people were so angry with the Jews after the First World War, because if you fought in the trenches, lost your jobs and your businesses and you saw that the Jews were having an easier time of it, you’d be angry too,” explained one teacher, helpfully.

Because, of course, German Jews did not fight in the trenches, German Jews did not lose their savings, their jobs and their businesses. So, all Jews are cowards, all Jews are rich, all Jews have no right to get angry.

Visiting a school as a guest speaker once, I tried to explain to some teachers in the staff room how ridiculous Jewish stereotypes were. They immediately launched into a tirade about the “arrogant Jewish princesses” they had encountered growing up who got everything they wanted on “Daddy’s money”. A self-professed ‘lefty’ even complained that a street near her university was “wall to wall Jewish businesses”. One of these teachers boasted to me that she had taught the whole Holocaust ‘module’ without showing “one of those atrocity pictures once”. When I relayed this to a Jewish friend whose mother survived Ravensbruck, he said, “How can people know how bad it was without showing them how bad it was?” This same teacher, who claimed the Holocaust was “absolutely fascinating”, whispered to me, “we have to ask this question” and, instead of saying it aloud, wrote it down on her planner and showed it to me: Did they deserve it?

I was shocked. Do we ask this question about the Middle Passage? Do we ask it about the victims of 9/11? We do not. Incidentally, she had already taught her students about Israel and why its existence was so “controversial” and, as she explained to me, that’s why the desert question had to be asked. In her brain, the Holocaust and Israel had somehow become chronologically juxtaposed, with the foundation of the state of Israel in 1948 somehow causing the murder of six million Jews by the Nazis.

Alas, this kind of prejudice is not confined to the state sector. A young acquaintance of mine who attends a posh private school told me his history teacher joked that “Jews won’t fight” after he was asked if Jews had fought in the First World War. I armed the pupil with facts: the Roman Legion Regi Emeseni Iudeai; Cleopatra’s two generals; how, in the First World War, Jews were the largest ethnic group to fight for either side; how Anne Frank’s father, as well as the young lieutenant who awarded Hitler his Iron Cross, had fought for Germany. The boy told the class, the teacher smirked and said, “Well, you learn something new every day.” Maybe so, but very rarely do you learn anything about antisemitism from teachers.

I’m admiring the level of cognitive dissonance it takes to believe that Jews won’t fight in wars and that Israel is a military aggressor.

Nearly all teachers I worked with habitually excuse Hitler

Let’s Talk About Crabs and Buckets.

missmentelle:

If you put a single crab into a bucket, it will climb out and escape from becoming someone’s dinner. 

If you put a whole bunch of crabs in a bucket, however, the crabs in the bottom of the bucket will pull the crabs at the top of the bucket back down if they try to escape. Instead of allowing some or all of the crabs to survive, the group of crabs will ensure that every single one of them ends up on a plate. 

This same phenomenon is seen in human communities, where it has become known – appropriately – as crab bucket mentality. From the outside, these crab bucket communities might look like support groups, or places to get feedback and advice. But in reality, they are black holes – these are communities where people go to tear each other down, and to actively be torn down in return. Instead of lifting each other up, these communities burrow further and further into their buckets, until everyone is too bitter and broken to ever climb out. 

And you might be part of a crab bucket community without even knowing it. 

Some online communities are obvious crab-buckets. The so-called “incel” community might be the most obvious example; these are angry young men who tell each other over and over again that they are worthless, unattractive, and that they will never be loved. Lonely teenagers enter the incel community to talk about how frustrated and insecure they are after dealing with romantic rejection, and they quickly find themselves pushed toward hopelessness, violent misogyny and suicidal fantasies. Likewise, the “pro-anorexia” and “thinspo” communities are crab buckets, where members encourage each other to adapt more and more extreme disordered eating, and often invite other members to make cruel comments about their bodies and food journals. Insecure young women (and some men) go to these communities because they want to like their bodies more, and end up weighed down with self-hatred. 

But not every crab bucket is obvious. 

Although there are lots of wonderful and supportive spaces online for LGBTQ+ people, the internet is also littered with LGBTQ+ crab buckets – especially for trans people. Some trans communities are almost entirely dedicated to discouraging and criticizing other trans people for not “passing”; these communities will pore over each others’ pictures, pointing out lingering masculine or feminine features, comparing each other to “a man in a dress”, or outright convincing each other that there is no point in transitioning, as they have no hope of ever “passing”. Anxious trans or questioning people join these groups to navigate a very difficult time in their lives, only to have their own insecurities magnified and distorted. 

Communities and feedback circles for writers and artists can also be crab buckets. Again, while there are wonderful and supportive spaces available, there are also toxic black holes out there, masquerading as genuine communities. I’ve belonged to writers’ groups where every single piece of writing was viciously torn to shreds, no matter how promising it might have seemed, and there were constant discussions about how ‘pointless’ it was to try to get published. Members were so insecure about not “making it” that they frantically tried to crush the hopes and dreams of anyone who might be competition. Instead of producing better writing, these kinds of groups eventually produce no writing at all. 

Activist communities are often crab buckets. On the surface, people join activism communities to lift each other up and feel less alone in their cause; in reality, however, many activist communities have underlying cultures of suspicion, gossip, and hostility. Members gleefully comb through each other’s posts and content carefully, constantly looking for any small mistake or out-of-context comment that will allow them to declare that someone is “trash” or “cancelled”. People join these causes to fight back against their own feelings of powerlessness, and often report developing anxiety, depression and panic attacks as a result. 

The list of crab bucket communities goes on. Any kind of group can become a crab bucket group under the right conditions; just because a community is created by and for a marginalized identity, it doesn’t mean that that community is actually safe for that identity. As humans, we like to band together in groups to accomplish large goals and feel less alone… but sometimes, we turn those groups into echo chambers for our own toxic ideas, and try to drag as many people as we can down into our buckets of despair with us. 

If you’re in a group that you suspect might be getting a little crabby, it’s probably time to leave. Turning a whole group around by yourself is an enormous and thankless task, and it’s not one that I’d wish on anybody. Once a group of people have formed a collective identity around proving why they’re all worthless or fat or problematic, it’s hard to turn that ship around, and any attempts to do it might be met with hostility. It’s okay to give up on toxic communities, and look for healthy ones that build you up instead of tearing you down. 

It’s okay to climb out of the bucket. 

flamingkat:

deanpleasepassthegravy:

forestbeneathme:

keepmywhiskeyneat:

wyvernchild:

lavender-ice:

please.

That is the exact spot my parents found a stray kitten. Nice little addition to the family, but would have been a terrible addition to the pavement had she not been very vocal OTL

No joke, the place where that cat is resting in this picture is called a “dead cat hole” it’s an automotive term.  Don’t believe me, look it up.

This is also where I found a stray cat, she was up in there during a thunderstorm and I begged my dad to let me being her inside and that’s the story of how I got my first cat.

Please don’t skip over this without reading it and making a mental note. Even if you don’t have a car, tell your parents or whoever, and make sure to do this. You think that’ll never happen but that’s what everyone thought who had this happen and didn’t check, and that poor cold cat met with a terribly sad end.

REBLOG WHETHER YOU LIKE CATS OR NOT

epicene-street-light:

cleoselene:

whitmerule:

letzplaymurder:

jane austen was so lit because she wrote about men the way men typically write about women i.e. her stories just centered around women and men were only there for the sake of women, and her books could have been all bitter and sad about the state of women in that century, but instead they’re sweet honest observational stories of friendship, family and love *sighs* what a lady i am sorry i ever doubted you cos I was bored in high school

no seriously her books do not pass the REVERSE bechdel test and it’s perfect

Jane Austen never wrote a single scene without a woman present.

Virginia Woolf ghostwrote this post

I was tagged by @impalaforthree and @eisenvulcanstein more than a week ago… thanks, and sorry for the delay. I’m just behind on life, as usual.

Rules: tag 15 people you want to get to know better!

Relationship status: Single and not really trying not to be. My cat and I are very happy together.

Favorite colors: blue and green

Lipstick or chapstick: chapstick/lip balm as needed (more in fall and winter)

Three favorite foods: It varies, but right now: Ben and Jerry’s Half Baked ice cream, sandwiches with fresh mozzarella and prosciutto on crusty bread (just like Fitz from “Agents of S.H.I.E.L.D.”), butternut squash ravioli

Song stuck in my head: Honestly? the credits theme music from “Angel” (which I finished watching recently)

Last song i listened to: Uh… I don’t know, I don’t listen to music while I work, which means I don’t listen to music a lot. The incidental music on NPR, which I stream while I’m puttering around the apartment.

last movie i watched: The Merchant of Venice (2004), starring Al Pacino and Jeremy Irons. There’s a lot of scenery chewing and gayness.

Time: 6:02 PM

Top three shows: “Buffy the Vampire Slayer” (but basically all Whedon shows), “The West Wing,” “The Good Place”

Books i’m currently reading: I kind of started reading Frankenstein because it’s the 200th anniversary but I didn’t get very far before I got too busy with other stuff… maybe I should take that up again.

Last thing i googled: gall-peters projection (someone posted an xkcd comic on Facebook about different map projections)

How many blankets do you sleep with: sheet + blanket normally, subtract blanket when it’s really hot, add comforter when it’s cold

Dream trip: Scotland + Scandinavia for Scotch and scenery

Anything you really want: a tenure-track job in a location that doesn’t suck

I am too too lazy to tag people. Consider yourself tagged if you see this and want to do it!

Halloween asks, tag 5 people

lucianalight:

iamanartichoke:

Tagged by @csmithman, thank you friend! 

Reblog with your favorite candy, favorite monster, whether or not you expect to die a violent death

(I started a new thread because I’m me) 

Peanut M&Ms (currently), Frankenstein, and Jesus, I hope not. In fact, I’d say I often go out of my way specifically to avoid a potentially violent death. I’m that car that won’t drive behind trucks with potentially deadly projectiles in the back because I’ve seen Final Destination too many times. 

Tagging @lesbiansassemble, @a-modern-major-general, @scintillatingshortgirl19, @lucianalight, and anyone else who wants to! 

Thank you @iamanartichoke !😊❤🎃

I don’t have much of a sweet tooth but I’ve always loved Kinder chocolates a lot. My favorite monster is Dracula or vampires really. They are just misunderstood!😜😁 I don’t exactly expect a violent death but life is unpredictable and I have no idea how it or death really can surprise me! 😀

Tagging: @lokiloveforever @foundlingmother @philosopherking1887 @seiramili7 @piccolaromana @lasimo74allmyworld and anyone who wants to!

Oops, I was tagged 2 weeks ago and I completely forgot. (My excuse is that I was at a conference in California and I was busy.)

Favorite candy: Reese’s peanut butter cups. Favorite monster: probably vampires (since I’ve been rewatching Buffy). Do I expect to die a violent death? No, but of course one never knows.

Tagging @impalaforthree, @whitemage03, @ms-cellanies, @imaginetrilobites, @living-in-an-alternate-universe (sorry if you’ve already done this and I missed it).

Sorry I’ve been sort of absent from the fandom recently. I’ve had a lot of shit going on, and even though I finished the main thing that was weighing me down (the journal paper), I’ve sort of gotten out of the habit of being active on Tumblr and I’ve been feeling kind of alienated from the fandom (Loki and Thorki) for what I should think are obvious reasons. I haven’t even bothered to watch videos of Tom’s interviews at Ace Comic Con because I’m thinking it’s not worth it to be emotionally invested in Loki or his fate.

I don’t want to abandon the fics I’m writing. I do want to get back into writing them. Or maybe that’s a second-order desire: I want to want to get back to writing. I’m feeling less depressed and anxious than I had been, probably because I finished the paper and because I’ve been settling into the new place and new job. Maybe my motivation and excitement will return. I’ll try keeping the documents open on my computer so at least I’ll be thinking about it.