Troubles of an anxious demisexual. By the time you find yourself wanting to have sex with someone, it’s been so long you worry that you’ll suck at it.
Don’t worry, it’s like riding a bicycle. More like riding a bicycle is proverbially than riding a bicycle actually is. (Says the person who was fine at sex after more than 2.5 years without but couldn’t stay upright on a bicycle after not having ridden one in a similar amount of time.)